2 Reasons You Choose Complicated Relationships, By A Psychologist

Repeated complicated relationships are often driven by insecure attachment patterns, not just bad luck with partners.

Early bonding experiences can shape anxious or avoidant attachment styles that persist into adult relationships.

Anxious and avoidant partners may trigger a pursuit-withdrawal cycle that keeps conflict repeating.

The article reframes relationship drama as a learnable pattern, opening the door to healthier choices and therapy.